A frame can embellish a picture to an extent; for the real beauty of a picture comes not from trimmings but from what is in it. That distinctive depth you are looking for cannot be added after but only while life unfolds. It is something rarely captured without illumination. A bright attitude, like a stage light, can be used to illuminate that which is worth capturing...that which will portray the depth you have been searching for.
Here are some simple steps on how to increase the lighting on the important things in life:
1-The Source: While most people complain that their jobs or relationships are not as exciting as they once were, you must keep in mind that excitement is not something you find but rather something you bring to the place or relationship. Ask yourself - What can I do to make my relationship or working environment more exciting? - This will put the spotlight on the real source of excitement....you.
2-Trimmings: Possessions can embellish your social status and ego, yet they can also cloud your spiritual view. It is fine to possess possessions as long as your possessions do not possess you. Ask yourself - If today was my last day, how would I spend it? Who would I spend it with? Would I try to make more money? - Gain clarity. Realize that your life is pretty complete as it is and that you already have most of what is really important.
3-illumination: Think for a moment. When has your life been the most meaningful? When have you felt the most at peace? Who do you feel you can truly be yourself around? When was the last time you really laughed? When have you been the happiest? When have you felt the most gratitude? When have you felt the freest? Find some commonalities among your answers and perhaps you might also find that spiritual illumination you have been looking for.
4-Participate: Imagine this. You are a rock-star. Millions came to see your performance. Since your routine is not perfect, you keep fine tuning it behind the curtains. So you make others wait. By the time you feel ready, the curtains open to an empty stadium. How much longer do you think others are going to wait for you? Start participating and realize that your presence however imperfect will add such a unique contribution that will far outweigh your imperfections.
5-The Perfect Picture: If you really take the time to identify what makes your picture or life complete (see #3), you will realize that for the most part some of the most valuable things you possess like friendship, love, companionship, or even great memories have no true monetary value. All your picture needs to be perfect is the brightness of your attitude.
Here are some simple steps on how to increase the lighting on the important things in life:
1-The Source: While most people complain that their jobs or relationships are not as exciting as they once were, you must keep in mind that excitement is not something you find but rather something you bring to the place or relationship. Ask yourself - What can I do to make my relationship or working environment more exciting? - This will put the spotlight on the real source of excitement....you.
2-Trimmings: Possessions can embellish your social status and ego, yet they can also cloud your spiritual view. It is fine to possess possessions as long as your possessions do not possess you. Ask yourself - If today was my last day, how would I spend it? Who would I spend it with? Would I try to make more money? - Gain clarity. Realize that your life is pretty complete as it is and that you already have most of what is really important.
3-illumination: Think for a moment. When has your life been the most meaningful? When have you felt the most at peace? Who do you feel you can truly be yourself around? When was the last time you really laughed? When have you been the happiest? When have you felt the most gratitude? When have you felt the freest? Find some commonalities among your answers and perhaps you might also find that spiritual illumination you have been looking for.
4-Participate: Imagine this. You are a rock-star. Millions came to see your performance. Since your routine is not perfect, you keep fine tuning it behind the curtains. So you make others wait. By the time you feel ready, the curtains open to an empty stadium. How much longer do you think others are going to wait for you? Start participating and realize that your presence however imperfect will add such a unique contribution that will far outweigh your imperfections.
5-The Perfect Picture: If you really take the time to identify what makes your picture or life complete (see #3), you will realize that for the most part some of the most valuable things you possess like friendship, love, companionship, or even great memories have no true monetary value. All your picture needs to be perfect is the brightness of your attitude.
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